One of my very best friends gave me a fabulous visual
to think about
When someone is being verbally mean
especially if they are doing so in a very passive-aggressive way
it feels like they are shooting arrows straight at you
But, you do not have to catch those arrows
You can watch those arrows drop to your feet
You do not have to pick them up
And G-d is by your side
watching the arrows fall
Congratulating you on not picking them up
And feeling sorry for the person shooting them
What do you think of that?
How do you handle the verbal barbs of passive aggressive people?
As always, comments (but not passive aggressive ones) are welcome.
Toodles,
Binky
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